Rupa Anand
The Daughter
For Amita
Aunty Vim married in her forties. Possibly Beeji, my maternal grandmother agreed to the arranged match as an unmarried daughter of that age was a pariah in the Indian society of the late sixties. As fate would have it she passed tragically, caught between a moving train and the platform.
Her daughter, an only child, my cousin, was eight then. Brought up by her father, a restaurateur, with gelled black hair and piercing black eyes to match, she took on the mantle of running an impeccable home for him and his numerous relatives.
At 20, amidst fever, tears and fanfare, she was married off against her wishes to a man her dad thought appropriate. The marriage weathered many storms. Later, when her father passed, the family moved abroad to set up a business, successfully managed by her.
Years later, mobilising the pain from deep within into courage, she divorced and moved out to start life afresh.
snow geese
ten thousand or more
homeward bound
the sky suffused
with freedom
About the Author

Rupa Anand, a spiritual seeker turned poet, has been nominated for a Pushcart Prize, the Touchstone Award, and Best of the Net honors. Her debut book. To the Edgeless Sky and Back (July 2024), chronicled her cancer journey. Her chapbook Tamarind Tree (2025) reveals her love for rescuing animals and birds. She lives in New Delhi, finding peace amid chaos.
I love this. The generational story. And the subject of arranged marriage in India. How we get to know the characters. How you’ve described a tragedy “caught between a moving train and the platform” and the phrase “mobilising the pain from deep within” is really good. As is the tanka ” the sky suffused / with freedom.
All beautifully crafted. Thank you Rupa.
Thank you, Liz, the complexities of life, marriage and relationships!
I also love this peice. The story of a life so sucinctly and creatively captured. The tanka is a real beauty.